There is a desire to be loved, liked, adored, cared for, wanted and needed. The list goes on and on. Interestingly, as you chase this desire, it often eludes you. 

You begin to wonder if, truly, it was a great idea chasing after it. Suddenly doubts fill your mind, followed by rage. 

What if you are trying too hard. What if you are expecting too much? Take some time to chill in these thoughts. 

There is beauty in knowing who you are and staying that way in situations when you aren't recognized, praised or adored.

As other live their life without clarity and ignorance of their virtues/values; you can clearly dominate wherever you are by simply accepting your assignment in life. 

Everyman is designed to be a vineyard where he is planted, cultivated, harvested, processed and served. It's in your service that you find absolute fulfilment.

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This reminds me of when mothers make a meal for their kids; the joy they have on their face to watch the child enjoy the meal gives them fulfilment. 

Same with fathers, husbands, boyfriends, brothers and yourself. Bringing in that extra cash at the end of the month shouldn't give you an extra height; it should humble you. 

• Serving without expecting to be thanked

• Helping without expecting to be given back, 

• Giving without anyone noticing

• Praying for others when they are unaware

• Loving beyond boundaries

Wrap up

This is what makes you irresistible. Only a few people can embrace, accept, put up with, & activate this dominance. When the world sees it, it's the most recognized act because it's rare.