We learnt how to constantly look at the bigger picture during our marriage counselling each time we have an argument.

When the heat is hot, it can be easy to forget why you are with the person, the texts and calls you made during the first phase, how they made you melt to pieces. 

The butterflies you felt in your stomach melt with lava of anger, discouragement and even sadness. But you have to focus on the big picture.