Sometimes, the smallest moments teach us the biggest lessons. Recently, I had lunch with a colleague at a Vietnamese restaurant. An unexpected mistake during our meal made me think deeply about the experience. The server handed us tea cups but no sauce trays, and my colleague—excited to dive into their meal—mistakenly poured the sauce into a teacup.

Unfaithfulness slows a man down; it is like a thick curtain that separates him from actualizing the persona he is designed to be. Unfaithfulness encourages premature growth and celebrates cancerous characters with ambitious hope that builds narcissistic tendencies.

You might not see yourself as such because they told you that you can't speak good English, looked down on, or treated like a piece of trash, especially with the phrase, "Oh, sorry, you have no Canadian experience." The list goes on and on.

Like crude oil, you are a precious gem; you have potential, but that potential will never be utilized or actualized if you don't get purified, distilled, treated, tested etc.

Living a simple and quiet life isn’t comfortable. You choose to opt into perseverance and discomfort for the greater good.

You have to let go of many things holding you back, polluting your mind, clouding your judgement and hindering you from becoming the man God has designed you to be.

You lose what doesn’t matter.