Unfaithfulness slows a man down; it is like a thick curtain that separates him from actualizing the persona he is designed to be. Unfaithfulness encourages premature growth and celebrates cancerous characters with ambitious hope that builds narcissistic tendencies.

Living a simple and quiet life isn’t comfortable. You choose to opt into perseverance and discomfort for the greater good.

You have to let go of many things holding you back, polluting your mind, clouding your judgement and hindering you from becoming the man God has designed you to be.

You lose what doesn’t matter.

Distractions are in different shades and sizes. One common excuse men make is that they have to work hard for their families. Given that this is expected, they forget that being present with their wives and kids is part of the equation.

Being physically present and emotionally absent equates to you not being present.

You might be unavailable today, but what happens when you need their attention or presence tomorrow? They would likely replicate what you have modelled for them

Constructing your life pillars allows you to work on your goals in phases rather than the random approach that has gotten you nowhere or delayed your achievement. 

Pillars add an extra force to the gravitational pull you get every morning when you wake up. It makes your goals specific, measurable, attainable, relevant and time-bound.