Constructing your life pillars allows you to work on your goals in phases rather than the random approach that has gotten you nowhere or delayed your achievement. 

Pillars add an extra force to the gravitational pull you get every morning when you wake up. It makes your goals specific, measurable, attainable, relevant and time-bound. 

Every time we hear that men aren't active listeners but how true is that? In this video, I explored if being vulnerable is good enough and some of the things a man should expect if he is vulnerable.

I also talked about the one thing women do that pushes men away and how to fix it.

My wife and I got talking recently about Instagram algorithms lately. We live in the same house, but I rarely see her posts unless she tags me on them. She shared this post, "How to best the 2022 Instagram Alogrithm" with me, which enhanced our conversation and inspired this post.

Before now, I had this weird feeling about the competitive nature of specific social media platforms, especially Instagram, as they are pushing multiple functions, expectations and behaviours for both creators and consumers. 

Instagram used to be the lounge of social media where the Big Boys/Girls chilled until they started opening shops there, and it has become a marketplace. (not bad for real)

According to Ryan Holiday, in today's Daily Stoic episode titled "Stop Caring, What people think." He said something that struck me, "don’t spend much time thinking about what other people think. Think about what you think. Think instead about the result. About the impact, whether it is the right thing to do."

On reading this, you might feel the need to throw every piece of advice, criticism or feedback given to you by friends, family, strangers etc. I get it, some opinions are void of facts and cannot yield results.