Distractions are in different shades and sizes. One common excuse men make is that they have to work hard for their families. Given that this is expected, they forget that being present with their wives and kids is part of the equation.

Being physically present and emotionally absent equates to you not being present.

You might be unavailable today, but what happens when you need their attention or presence tomorrow? They would likely replicate what you have modelled for them

When I was in Nigeria, as an African man, if a girl smiled at me, I would take that as an invitation to a conversation; when she looked straight into my eyes, that was more than an invitation. 

I don't think I am weird to feel this way because, as Nigerians, we aren't taught how to look at people in the eyes unless we have that awestruck butterflies for that person. 

In my last video, Love Literacy Part 1, at 4:33, I mentioned that “Love is a social currency where you get to fill up your love account as though it is a financial account.”

When there seems to be chaos, Love isn't what some people want to hear. Humanity enjoys themes around being saved from distress, good prevailing over evil, love conquering all, etc. 

I take a stand to do the needful by promoting love, good, happiness, hope, light, hence why my new favourite colour is white.

When was the last time you saw someone complaining about maltreatment a guy is giving to his girlfriend, yet the complainer is going home to hurt his very own partner?

Did you call him out for hurting his partner? Yet, you two might sit and have a fully served conversation about how the other person mistreats his lady.

Multiply this perception across different sectors. You'd realize that we all are guilty of some of the decline we get to complain about.